Quotes I enjoy

"Who are you to judge the life I live? I know I'm not perfect and I don't live to be. But, before you start pointing fingers, make sure your hands are clean"

"Lust tastes like tequila and love tastes like whiskey...Love burns for longer and warms you up on the inside and sometimes it makes you do stupid things. Tequila just makes you wasted."

"People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of alterior motives. Be kind anyway. If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway. If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway."

"The best relationship is...when you two can act like lovers and best friends...It’s when you have more playful moments than serious moments...It’s when you can joke around, have unexpected hugs, and random kisses...It’s when you two give each other that specific stare and just smile...It’s when you’d rather chill inside to watch movies, eat junk foods, and cuddle than go out all the time...It’s when you’ll stay up all night just to talk and share...It’s when you can completely act yourself and they can still love you for who you are."

"There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living."

"You're my anyway friend. The one person in your life who no matter what they say or do or no matter what they've been through with you. They love you anyway."

"How can you know? You make a choice, you do what you think is right at the time. The plan is you meet a guy, fall in love, have a family, but you have to be specific. Be older than 15, meet the right guy, stay in love. "

Reflection

I took a moment today to reflect on my son Roman. He's growing up sooo fast and I can't wait to watch him grow more but I can't help but be a little sad because I'm missing out on things I can't get back.

Hopefully other memories will make up for it.

Roman coloring his face with chalk.... he looks like the Joker

Nana showing Roman how to flap his arms now that he has feathers

Playing at the school bus toy while waiting at his doctor's appointment

Roman poking Nana in the eye :(

Roman smooshing Nana's face

More adventures....

Stupid blog won't let me post them all at once... so here's some more
Adventuring by Nana's painted bench, he's got a goatee of chalk.... yum

Brushing his teeth... this is entertaining stuff


Climbing trees (with a little help from mommy)... and surveying his playground.

Roman beating up the TV aka the cookie monster

Pedi-Spa ing Jodi's feet... lucky kid (lucky he didn't die by feet stink) ha ha ha ha

Roman update

Roman has been a busy little man lately. Here are some of his adventures...
Roman discovered he could almost fit under his rocking chair.
Roman loves blowing bubbles, he also loves carrying around his bubble refill.

Getting down and dirty at Nana's house.

Pedi-spa feet time, this was after he tried to do Nana's and Aunty Jodi's feet....
Eating an otter pop.... it ended up all over my sock.... and my ankle :(

Burden upon the man

Love and Marriage. In today's world usually linked, not many of Americans are in arranged marriages anymore. When someone asks your hand in marriage they actually want to spend the rest of their life with you. Isn’t that how it goes? It isn’t because you don’t think anything better will come along? This seems to be the case for me because when I said my vows, I meant them. I would do whatever it took to make my marriage work, UNLESS I got nothing in return. I asked time and time again for emotional response back and I got nothing. He didn’t need me. He just tolerated me. He loathed me, cause he failed George Fox and had to take online classes because I got pregnant and then he told me not to work cause he had it covered. While deep down he just wanted control over me and what I could or couldn’t do because he had the money and the power because I stopped hanging out with my friends who didn’t like him and I made him my world. He didn’t do the same, he didn’t care. I was just a burden, a hindrance. I kept him from playing on his Xbox, from sleeping all day, and spending his money on whatever he wanted. He’s got the life he wants now and I’m obsolete. I’ll just follow his lead and move on too. I’ve got friends now who care and I’ve got a wonderful son who is my world. It just hurts that someone who asked YOU to marry them, it was what he wanted can just ignore you. I guess I should be used to it because he did it for 90% of the marriage. I’m just emotional I guess.

Obsession

Roman sleeping, yea I'm that mom

Peek-A-Boo

Where should I go in mom's shoes? HMMMMM Oddly enough he didn't want to wear my converse shoes.

Hey! This is my hide-out get your own!

He loves shoes!